Keep things quiet and carry your own sufferings.
philosophy Life Network
have you ever felt this way:
at a certain age, there are fewer and fewer people who can talk to each other, but there are very few people who can speak the truth on the wine table and in the address book.
those bitter grievances want to talk to someone, but their feelings are hard to control, but they swallow them back because they can't find anyone who can disturb them at any time.
all the joys and sorrows in the world are not the same, and no one can really feel the same. Instead of complaining and explaining painstakingly, it is better to choose silence.
Silence is not a matter of few words or arrogance, but the indifference after seeing through the warmth of human feelings and the truth and falsehood of the world, getting used to digesting everything by oneself, and no longer showing one's own wounds to others.
A person is becoming more and more silent, probably because of these three points.
see through too thoroughly, it is rare to be confused
there is a popular saying on the Internet:
"Silence is a person's loudest cry, and it is the most silent cry when the world compromises to reality."
I think so.
when people reach middle age, they have more and more experience. Silence is not cowardice or letting go, but a sense of powerlessness in the face of many things. Because they see clearly, they despise them.
truly mature people will not be blushed because of who is right and who is wrong, still less will they be furious because of their own discontent.
in life, there are too many people and things beyond our control, and the human heart is even more elusive.
not all people are true to each other, and not everything, black and white.
when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when the man is clear, he has no friends. Do not take everything too seriously, timely silence and play dumb, you can make yourself less hurt.
in this journey of life, all people are just passers-by, and they can only come to the end.
there is no need to haggle over, colleagues are fate, do not ask the time of return, do not ask the source, life is only this way.
the three values are different, so there is no need to integrate
Li ao once said:
"sometimes explanations are unnecessary: enemies don't believe your explanations, friends don't need your explanations."
when you think about it, it is true.
there are some things, needless to say. Those who understand you are self-evident, and those who do not understand you are indefensible.
people with different values, just like I said that the sea is beautiful, you said that many people were drowned; I said the steak was delicious, but you said it was expensive and not good to eat; I was sincere to you, but you pointed a needle at me.
the three values are different, so you don't have to be friends.
We all have our boundaries, so we don't have to be out of place with another person, we each choose a circle that suits us, and we don't have to force others to be like ourselves.
it is different for a blind man to touch an elephant; to see a leopard in a tube, each has his own merits.
We cannot judge who is right and who is wrong, just because of the position, the angle of view is naturally different.
you will inevitably encounter moments of misunderstanding and distortion in your life, and you may be at a loss and devastated. Be sure to tell yourself:
Don't be angry, just have a clear conscience.
Lu Xun said: "Silence is the highest contempt."
Life is too short. Don't get entangled with bad people and bad things. Keeping silent and improving yourself is a person's greatest wisdom.
be kind to yourself and be lenient to others
when you are alive, you have to forgive and forgive others, leave leeway in everything, give way to reason, learn to be silent, and take a step back from the sea and the sky.
right and wrong in the world, there is no need to care too much about gain or loss, honor or disgrace. Those things outside the body do not belong to you after all, so why struggle until you die.
Silence is not introverted or magnanimous, but because you care about it, you choose to make concessions.
between relatives, win right and wrong, but lose affection; between lovers, win right or wrong, but lose affection.
in this world, not everything has to be won or defeated. Sometimes, silence and leniency are the best way to solve all problems.
as the saying goes: those who know me say I am worried; those who do not know me say what I want.
Don't care what others say, cherish those who are good to you, and live your own life is the most important.
Nietzsche once said: "whoever will eventually be famous will remain silent for a long time."
listen to the truest thoughts in your heart, strive to improve yourself, and get ready to make a splash.
those days when we have made a lot of efforts but failed to get results, we call it taking root, deeply rooted in the soil, unaffected by the outside world.
Silence is a person's best value-added period.
Hemingway said, "it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up."
speaking is a profound knowledge.
know how to be silent, be quiet but not argue, and learn to be bearish and open, can be regarded as the top wise man.
be a silent person, in the face of ups and downs, no regrets; in the face of changes in the world, neither humble nor arrogant.
keep things quiet and carry your own sufferings.
, may you not speak quickly, always tolerate people, be humiliated and humiliated, sit and watch the flowers blossom in front of the court, laugh at the clouds on the horizon, and live at ease.
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