Don't talk too much in the world. If you talk too much, you will lose.
listen to the main
read Enron calm aloud
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as the old saying goes, "my words are easy to know and easy to do." The world can't know, but it can't be done. There is a truth in what is said, and there is a gentleman in the matter. "
I take it for granted that we should "keep to the middle" when we speak, keep quiet in the depth of water, and keep quiet.
repair a rich mouth and enjoy a lifetime of wealth and honor. Only by practicing morality can you keep your good luck.
those who are really smart never say these three words.
Queen abstain from gossiping
in the Book of morality, it is said: "if you do good deeds, there will be no tracks; if you say good words, there will be no relegation."
he who does good deeds has few faults, but he who speaks good words is far from evil. But there are always people who like to sow discord and sow discord.
he who is right or wrong is not a human being.
keep your mouth shut and don't let misfortune come out of your mouth.
do your own thing, do not cause trouble, otherwise the disaster will be endless.
Liu Yong, a poet of the Northern Song Dynasty, dropped the list several times and was depressed all day long.
once, when he made an appointment with a friend to watch the fireworks, he criticized Song Renzong.
Liu Yong said:
"Song Renzong is blind to Mount Tai. I read a lot of books, but I failed the list many times, which must be his loss. What's the use of being successful? It's not as beautiful as this. Wouldn't it be better to have a drink with you? "
these words soon spread to Song Renzong.
Liu Yong was on the list again in the imperial examination, and Song Renzong was bitter about Liu Yong's previous remarks, so he did not hesitate to cross out Liu Yong's name.
also wrote on his examination paper: "since you don't like this success, go with the wine."
although Liu Yong was full of poems and books, he ruined himself on his own words and deeds and ruined his future ever since.
"Disease comes in from the mouth, and evil comes out from the mouth
, many contradictions in life come from gossip. Everyone understands the truth that evil comes out of the mouth, but few people can do it.
right and wrong, there is justice in itself, and there is no need to gossip.
sit still and often think about your own mistakes and gossip about others.
keep your mouth shut, keep your heart, don't talk about right and wrong, don't be disturbed by right and wrong.
abstain from crazy talk
as the saying goes, "if you have a big voice, the elephant is invisible."
the better the music is, the more silent the music is, and the taller the image is, the more distant it is.
just like in life, those who keep a low profile always have boundless power.
once upon a time, there was a Taoist priest who liked to talk big with the people around him wherever he went.
once, a visitor came to the Taoist temple and asked the Taoist priest, "how old are you?"
the Taoist priest smiled and replied, "how can I remember how old I am?" All I know is that when I was very young, I met Nu WA and Fuxi, and the Queen Mother even invited me to be a guest. "
one day, the king was seriously injured and needed thousands of years of blood to cure his illness.
Ministers put up notices everywhere, seeking drug quotations and paying a lot of thanks.
when he heard the news, someone went to tell him, "there is a Taoist priest in the Taoist temple on the mountain. He is thousands of years old, and there must be no problem with his blood as medicine."
the king sent someone to take back the Taoist priest and use his blood to cure the disease.
the Taoist priest panicked and knelt down and begged for mercy: "how can I be thousands of years old? it's just a lie. Please don't kill me!"
as the saying goes, "if you want to die, you must let it go crazy."
Don't be too inflated and don't be too arrogant in doing things, because God will make you arrogant first if you let him die.
things are unpredictable. One day, we will pay for our arrogance.
the more incompetent people are, the more ostentatious they are and the more they like to talk big. Really powerful people, know how to put away arrogance at the right time, low-key humility.
practice the mind and precepts and talk a lot
as the saying goes, "the way of heaven is good at winning without striving, and responding without saying."
the law of nature is not to contend but to win, not to speak but to respond.
tongue is the source of benefit and harm, and mouth is the door of misfortune and good fortune.
the mouth is the door of the heart, and it is also in charge of the blessings and misfortunes of life. Learning to be silent and cautious in words and deeds can not only avoid disasters, but also reap good fortune.
during the Spring and Autumn period, King Zhuang of Chu succeeded to the throne and did nothing.
he ignored the government all day long and refused an audience with his courtiers, and the ministers were in a panic.
one day, Sima Jin said, "there is a bird that has not spread its wings for three years and has been silent. Do you know what kind of bird it is?"
the king of Chuzhuang replied:
"not flying for three years is to make your wings full; three years of silence is for secret observation." If you don't fly, you will soar into the sky; if you don't sing, you will be a blockbuster. "
in fact, when the king of Chuzhuang first succeeded to the throne, he was in danger, and if he acted recklessly, he was bound to suffer.
so he keeps quiet and keeps a low profile.
in the past three years, the king of Chuzhuang continued to accumulate superior troops and select talented people, laying the foundation for defeating countries that threatened him in the future, and finally allowing the State of Chu to dominate the world.
the strong bow their heads and the weak show off.
those who have real strength know how to be low.To be a man without showing his edge is a kind of advanced wisdom.
therefore, reticence does not mean nothing, nor does cautious words and deeds mean cowardice and incompetence.
Don't talk too much in the world. If you say more, you will lose. Sometimes, reticence is the best umbrella for yourself.
the philosopher said, "A kind word can be respected in the city, and a beautiful bank can add people."
Beautiful words can win the respect of others, and good deeds can be respected. On the contrary, evil words and evil words will bring endless disaster in the end.
words are not too much, but usefulness is more expensive. Tight-lipped and wiser.
your words reveal your luck. Watch your mouth, keep your mouth shut, and be a really smart person!